Rimming or anilingus

One of the most persistent taboos surrounding oral sex is the one related to the anal area—known as “black kiss” or anilingus—which is simply another way to experiment and maximize pleasure; however, even today, this practice is often associated with marginal or unsafe sexual relationships.

Just as anal sex can provide maximum arousal for both men and women, rimming is one of the most exciting ways to relax the anus—an essential step in building the arousal needed for both anal and vaginal sex.

The anus is one of the erogenous zones most sensitive to stimulation in both the female and male body. During rimming, the tongue and mouth are used to stimulate both the anal area and the buttocks.

If you want the experience to be amazing, you need to take a few steps beforehand, such as shaving, not only to feel confident during the encounter, but also so that the person performing it can enjoy it just as much as you do.

Like any other form of oral sex, it is not free from the risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases, so it is very important to practice meticulous hygiene using antibacterial gels. Enema irrigation will cleanse the rectal area and give you confidence in the level of cleanliness you should provide and expect in order to enjoy these exciting caresses.

You can also use oral barriers to prevent your tongue from coming into contact with your partner’s bodily fluids. These barriers are square pieces of latex that are placed over the anus or vagina and allow for stimulation; you can also use a condom on your tongue.

These precautions aren’t as “a pain” as they might seem, since the great pleasure we derive from these caresses makes up for the safety we must ensure and provide.

A good way to start caressing this area is to not be too direct, since, as we’ve already explained, this area is very sensitive. Start by caressing the buttocks, play with the penis or vagina, use lubricant to slide your hand toward the anus, and gently use your middle finger to make circular motions there—you’ll immediately notice that the entire pelvic area becomes aroused.

Position your partner comfortably and gently run the tip of your tongue in small circles, from the perineum to the anus, while using your mouth to give gentle suctions in that area; use your hands to stimulate the penis or vagina. You’ll feel the powerful arousal coursing through your partner’s body—an experience that, like anything genuine, requires preparation.