To be really wild

Pets’ lives offer a captivating blend of carefree living and pure animal nature—in contrast to our own existence, which is so stressful and yet so civilized… that we’ve turned it into an ideal way of life???

– You only need to watch them for a few moments to feel their surprising sense of calm and vitality; animals live in the present, and only in the present.

– They are not obsessed, as humans are, with the next minute or with the mark they will leave on posterity. They have the ability to live more fully. They experience neither doubts nor delays, nor dashed hopes. For them, it is a matter of survival.

Animals rely on instinct and learned experience, which enhances their ability to react quickly and keeps them safe from the moods that humans go through when “reflection” becomes obsessive or negative.

-Animals do not know the feeling of failure. Their mistakes or missteps are merely twists and turns, accidents along a path whose destination they do not know.

-Animals find fulfillment by satisfying their basic needs: feeding themselves, reproducing, and raising their young. They are not slaves to their desires, their expectations, or the frustration of only partially fulfilling them.

-Animals always or almost always find a way to adapt to their environment and to changes in it.

They do not try to shape their environment in their own image or according to their needs; rather, they adapt their way of life to it. They respect nature more than any human being, and they are neither greedy nor wasteful.

-Animals learn to fight for their survival from a very young age.

They are not in a state of constant development—physically, emotionally, or psychologically—as humans are, a state that sometimes makes us so fragile.

Sharing sorrows and spreading joy…

Cats and dogs are able to share with their owners the joys and, even more so, the sorrows that affect them.

This is because they have an unparalleled sense of smell and hearing; they are able to recognize inflections in the voice or chemical changes (smell, perspiration, etc.) that reveal human emotions: fear, anxiety, illness, sadness, etc.

They are not very sensitive to the content of speech or the cause of a person’s distress, but they are perfectly capable of perceiving its manifestation, even if it is silent.

It does nothing but absorb the emotions around it with patient forbearance. Similarly, as we learn from them, facing situations beyond our control requires the peace of mind that comes from emotional support—not grand speeches or advice.

It is similar to learning to listen in silence and respond to their distress simply by our physical presence and with gestures that can offer support and comfort.

Gratitude is most appreciated when it comes before the gift…

The pet always celebrates its owner’s return:

In the same way, let’s learn to express our joy at being with our loved ones spontaneously, without expecting anything in return—neither now nor in the future. However we choose to express it—with a kiss, a caress, a smile… a peaceful demeanor… or a combination of all of these—

This doesn’t solve everything, but it helps prevent unnecessary tension or arguments that, in the long run, undermine communication within the couple and the family.

The game…

From a very young age, cats and dogs display a liveliness and energy that can suddenly become explosive.

It demonstrates its keen sense of observation while tracking, anticipating movements that will allow it—in principle, “if no one adopts it”—to corner its prey and satisfy its nutritional needs almost entirely on its own.

Play allows our pets to gradually gain control over their movements and channel their excess energy by adjusting the distance of their jumps.

Learn not to scratch… not to bite all the time, or too violently… this particular cat defines “self-control” in its territory and masters brute force, since hunting is not its only motivation.

We adult humans have this unfortunate tendency to view play as something limited to childhood.

As if there were one age devoted entirely to recreational activities and another reserved for serious matters.

Let’s seek out that constant inspiration to give ourselves the chance to preserve “the spirit of a child.”

Let’s not settle for what we’ve already experienced and enjoy; if we stimulate new abilities, we’ll discover new activities that will develop our senses.

The interactivity of sharing …

The interactivity offered by the game stimulates emotions and values within us that help us cultivate those aspects of our lives that will make us better adults.

– Facing challenges where what we risk isn’t important in our daily lives.

– Practice and develop the skills required for the game in question. – Compare our skills with those of other players and make an objective assessment. – To take certain problems less seriously within the harmless context of the game and to face obstacles or situations of failure “in good fun.” – To develop a healthy form of aggression, rivalry, and a winning spirit. – To experience the feeling of varying degrees of mastery, which builds self-confidence.

“Lessons Dogs Teach Humans:”

Without a doubt, the most beautiful thing we can learn from dogs is their unconditional love, which remains just as intense in any situation.

They don’t harbor the feelings of hatred that we humans do, and that’s what makes them such a great example for us. We know that having a dog is a beautiful thing. Although they are still animals that require training—since they sometimes exhibit wild behavior—being with them allows us to feel their sensitivity and loyalty, filling the voids created by human selfishness.

A picture is worth a thousand words…

They can’t speak, but they have a thousand ways to communicate.

They’ll tell you everything you need to know with a deep look in their eyes or by wagging their tails… they’ll always find a way to get your attention if that’s what they want, whether by getting into mischief or making the most unlikely gestures.

They have the power to make us feel good just by curling up between our legs; they can sense your mood and will come closer in a more noticeable way when you’re feeling sad or depressed.

Instincts…

Dogs never suppress their instincts.

They never let themselves be carried away by the trivialities of their lives, unlike us, who, when we feel nervous, excited, or afraid, suppress those emotions and rely on reason.

Blind trust…

Dogs have great self-confidence, which has allowed them to relentlessly pursue their prey, play carefree, and, ultimately, pursue their dreams without tiring.

We humans should learn from their perseverance and stop being ashamed of failing—most of the time, we fail ourselves.

The little details…

All behavioral experts agree that, in order to feel connected to the person we’re talking to, we tend to mimic them.

For this reason, we often adopt the same posture or facial expression, or make the same gestures as the person in front of us.

What makes them so charming? = They resonate with our emotional state

They sleep in, enjoy the scenery… exercise… eat healthy… go for walks… and, above all, love and protect their family. Life doesn’t get any better than this.

“Why look like a cat?”

Freedom… is a free adventure…

Cats are free, self-reliant, and independent…

Even with the most sedentary and cuddly cats, we’re fascinated by their independence.

From an early age, even if a cat isn’t pampered or cared for as a kitten, it will retain a certain distrust of anything that isn’t feline.

It is capable of meeting its basic needs on its own (hunting for food, grooming itself, or finding shelter), and this allows the cat to retain a solitary nature that does not prevent it from forming social relationships and deriving pleasure and benefit from them, even if it does not fully develop those relationships.

Independence …

Independence is not so much a rational or impulsive choice as it is an acquired ability.

Being financially dependent on others is an obstacle…

It is difficult to pursue the projects that motivate us or take the paths that appeal to us—especially in our professional lives—when we depend on others to meet our basic needs.

Not depending on anything or anyone means taking 100 percent responsibility for our successes and our failures.

Making the most of the former and accepting the latter.

Being emotionally dependent on others and their judgment is a sign of weakness…

The gazes directed at us—even the most benevolent ones—should matter to us enough that their absence doesn’t completely paralyze us or destroy us.

Like cats, we must appreciate and seek out signs of affection, but if we are deprived of them, we must overcome these challenges and find within ourselves the resources we need to survive.

Knowing how to say “no”…

Cats are patient, but they know how to set limits on their tolerance.

Once he has established the rules of his relationship with the other person, he does not change them easily, and he certainly does not break them at the slightest opportunity.

Any event perceived as unpleasant is quickly stored in his memory, and from that point on, he will do everything in his power to avoid it.

This instinct gives rise to the popular proverb: “Once bitten, twice shy”… so it will be difficult to change their mind and alter their initial perception in order to make them change their mind.

Recognizing that every person and every event deserves a second chance, it would be important to take a cue from them in the following situations…

Avoid repeating patterns of unfortunate experiences, in which some people get caught up time and time again…
Develop your own value system based on experience, independent of any established framework.
Take time for yourself to evaluate the positive and negative aspects, identifying what each specifically contributes, integrating them, and accepting them based on experience—not out of conformity or submission.
Have your own space…

A cat’s freedom does not consist of doing whatever it wants, however it wants, and wherever it wants, but simply in defining and marking its territory in ways that promote efficiency, comfort, and safety.

Create your own space… Define a specific area of activity…

People gain a sense of serenity and wisdom when they are able to identify the occupation or type of activity in which they are most competent and devote themselves to it with full awareness.

Turn your most enjoyable and/or most productive activities into rituals…

Following a precise protocol allows you to make gradual progress, which is a source of satisfaction and security, while still being able to adapt these rules depending on the situation.

“We are what we do repeatedly. Excellence, therefore, is not an act, but a habit”…

Make your mark…

Whatever our activity may be—whether imposed on us or freely chosen—leave your mark on it so that others can recognize it.

Set specific goals for yourself…

Create your own world, even if you may seem “out of touch with the world.”

You are working toward a goal or objective, and through your actions and focus, you are transforming what you are doing.

Like a cat’s path, although it may seem random from the outside, it usually has a well-defined goal.

Turn obligations into a source of pleasure…

When a person has a firm grasp of their surroundings and the activity they are engaged in, they act more instinctively and freely, replacing their initial obligations with experiences of safety and well-being.

To land on your feet…

If a cat needs to assert ownership of its territory, it demonstrates a great capacity to adapt. By keeping a reasonable distance from obstacles—neither too close nor too far—we’ll have a clearer view of the situation and be better able to overcome them; it’s not about idealizing an outcome but about finding an effective solution.

Be demanding…

Cats have a reputation for being demanding animals because they won’t tolerate being treated just any old way and are not easily domesticated, retaining many preferences they developed from a very young age.

It is often said that he is an animal that enjoys comfort, peace and quiet, and cleanliness…

Her little routine—may nothing and no one ever disturb or cast a shadow over it.

He sometimes acts like a “spoiled child,” yet he manages his life reasonably: he eats until he’s full… he exercises to stay in shape, he keeps himself clean, he takes charge of his living space… etc…

All of these are virtues that we humans also incorporate into our everyday lives.

He certainly isn’t lacking in passion, but the essence of his daily life consists of following the strict rules of life, often without excess.

And we should take note of that. Cats clearly lead a “healthy lifestyle.”

Although the notion of pleasure is not entirely absent from their lives, the way cats live is a true celebration of the virtues of routine.

“Human beings’ capacity for cruelty is directly proportional to their insecurity…”

Ultimately, we feel that cruelty toward a domesticated animal is not the same as cruelty toward a human being, because if there is one thing they continually demonstrate, it is their ability to protect, love, and trust humans.

In the case of wild animals, their behavior is not driven by a desire to conquer territory or accumulate possessions, but rather to live in harmony with nature, using their own adaptive abilities to protect their species.