Strategies for Kissing Well

Are you a good kisser?

Kiss me… kiss me a lot…

A kiss is, of course, a tangible expression of love and affection…

We humans use it to greet friends or family as a sign of affection, and between partners, it’s used not only as a gesture of love but also as the best way to lead into foreplay… expressing the desire and passion we feel…

Sex is a vital part of our lives, and so is kissing, which is why we should cherish this gesture.

Let’s not forget that kissing is an art, and there are thousands of ways to kiss—as many as there are couples and people.

In reality, there’s no such thing as an ideal way to kiss; what sets “kissing well” apart from “kissing poorly” is the ability to empathize with your partner…

The clues you get from the way he kisses will help you enjoy the kiss as the beginning of passion and desire (it’s better to start off on the right foot).

Here we’re just giving you a few pointers on general techniques, but the best thing is to learn to read the signs…

The general rules for kissing well are as follows:

First…make sure your lips are soft and moisturized. To do this, try using lip balm, and before kissing, moisten them (discreetly)…that way, they’ll glide more smoothly and easily…

Slowly approach your partner and take your time… One recommendation is to make eye contact 20 seconds before kissing… while caressing your partner’s body—hair, neck, hands, arms… You should always maintain intermittent eye contact with their lips and mouth…

Tilt your head to one side so that the kiss feels comfortable and easy.

That encounter will be more intimate, with their noses touching, and their lips will rest against each other.

While maintaining eye contact—at least at the beginning and end—close your eyes as you get closer.

You should start gently, parting your lips slightly, and with soft kisses with your mouth closed before moving on to a French kiss; this way, you’ll know if they’re into it—you’ll be able to tell by the reciprocal movement of their lips.

That movement should seek out the other person’s lips, and to find out if they want a French kiss, lightly brush their lips with your tongue… if they don’t pull away, keep brushing them—this time the upper and lower lips… and vice versa…

Explore with your tongue and gently slide it further inside.

Enjoy her lips. After all this, you can gradually increase the intensity of the kiss.

A passionate kiss happens when the tongue goes deeper into the mouth.

To kiss well, you need not only passion but also imagination.

Once you’re comfortable with kissing, you can add a lot of things… try different positions… vary the timing… the rhythm…

Another key to kissing well, in addition to what I mentioned earlier… is “chemistry,” which is a two-way street and has nothing to do with techniques or strategies…

It takes patience, perseverance, and—above all—a lot of practice… so, bloggers… let’s get to work!

Things to Avoid When Kissing… So You Don’t Break the Magic…

-Avoid three-day stubble… it’s prickly and unpleasant…

-Be very careful about oral hygiene: avoid foods that leave a strong aftertaste (garlic, onions, milk), or cigarettes… mint-flavored gum or candy can be helpful.

-Prevent those unpleasant dry, flaky patches on neglected lips.

-Don’t try to open your mouth and stick out your tongue, giving it your all right from the start…

“It’s slowly sinking in.”

-Don’t tilt your head to the same side at the same time.

-Try not to let your teeth bump into your partner’s.

-Use your hands…caress while you kiss…it’ll make everything more romantic and less static.

-Talk about what you like, and be tactful.

-We’ve already mentioned that kissing is a skill, but not a science.

It takes two, and it’s up to you to make it a wonderful moment—a perfect, one-of-a-kind kiss.

And now, really… kiss me… kiss me a lot…