Strategies for Disarming During Seduction

DISARMAMENT STRATEGIES

The Strategy of Suspense, The Calculated Surprise!

We should surprise our victim with some mischievous, daring, or poetic gesture….

Anything that happens unexpectedly and naturally is always very alluring, so we need to learn how to use the element of surprise to our advantage.

People are usually bored with their lives, and we need to give them that new excitement that awaits them just around the corner.

An emotion that frees them up a little and allows them to let go, surrendering control to the other person and propelling them in unexpected directions. That curiosity will draw them closer and closer to our networks.

The Art of Persuasive Public Speaking …the power of words…

The essence of seductive language lies in making the victim hear everything they want to hear, intoxicating them with seductive rhetoric: let him or her interpret it however they want…We must envelop them in fantasies, sweet words, and promises… that way, we’ll not only ease their insecurities, but they’ll truly listen to us and won’t be able to resist us.

In the same way, we can use writing to stir up all kinds of fantasies in our victim and become their ideal partner.

Love messages should be suggestive and alluring, without lecturing or explaining.

Let’s not get sentimental—it’s too exhausting and straightforward. Thoughts expressed in writing should never be fully formed, because there’s nothing more erotic than a short, abrupt note. Our messages will be more sexually charged if we make them not only short, but also more frequent and even more disorganized.

“The Victim Strategy”:

All those tactics we use to seduce someone can give away all our strategies.

To build trust and avoid arousing any suspicion, the best approach is to make the other person feel superior and stronger. The best way to do this—and to cover our tracks—is to display our “sincerity” by playing the role of a victim and feigning physical weakness, using tools such as tears, shyness, pallor—which will help create this effect and, in this way, transform the other person’s compassion into love.

“A fantasy strategy come true, the perfect dream”:

No seduction can succeed without creating an illusion—a feeling that is real but separate from reality.

Our task as seducers is to bring fantasy to life in our victim’s life, whether by embodying a fantastical figure or by creating a setting that resembles their dreams.

The ideal victims are those who have a repressed dream or an unfulfilled dream, because we can create in them the illusions they want to live out.

People want to believe in the extraordinary, and with a little mental stimulation, they’ll fall for our illusion.

To do this, we must convince our victim that, through our help, their dreams will come true.

We must take it slowly to earn their trust and, little by little, create a fantasy that matches their desires.

We can add subtle touches of fantasy to our words or an occasional gesture that lends them a hint of unreality.

We must target the hidden desires they have repressed or frustrated, thereby stirring up emotions that cloud their judgment.

The perfect fantasy is one that doesn’t stray too far from reality, but has a touch of unreality, like when we daydream.

Once we realize that we’ve succeeded in seducing them and they’ve taken the bait, we can delve deeper and deeper into the fantasy…Once we’ve reached that point of confusion where the person being seduced can no longer tell the difference between illusion and reality, we won’t have to worry about the plausibility of our fantasies anymore…

“Let’s create the need to need each other”

Before desire, there must be pain. We must create a wound that we can reopen again and again.

Anxiety and feelings of lack are the precursors to all desires. Without them, seduction is impossible. Pain and anxiety are precursors to pleasure itself. We must learn to create the need for our help.

“Strategy: The Effect of Isolation”:

We must fill their field of vision with all the attention and pleasure we give them so that they push everything else out of their minds. We must make them feel, when they are with us, as if they were in limbo: leaving one world behind to enter another.

Once they are alone, they lack outside support, and in their confusion, they are easily led astray.

A person on their own is weak; by slowly isolating our victims, we make them more vulnerable to our influence. Let’s remember that people secretly long to be guided by someone who knows where they’re going.

It can be a pleasure to let yourself go—and even to feel isolated and vulnerable—if the seduction is slow and pleasant.

Let’s lure the victims into our lair, where nothing is familiar to them.