Games That Make You Want to Play Again

We’d like to suggest some games to rekindle your desire…

There are many possibilities, but we’ll mention three that are particularly interesting for encouraging initiative, imagination, and the desire for erotic encounters.

Weekly Warm-up and Change of Setting:

First, let’s plan the setting. To do this, we need to find a day and a place that feels intimate to us, away from our usual bedroom and, if possible, away from our usual home as well.

Any place will do—a hotel room, etc. It doesn’t have to be far away; it can even be within the same city. The important thing is that it’s a new experience for your partner. Once you’ve chosen the place and the day for your romantic get-together, try to get things going—but by acting up a little… let me explain…

If, for example, we’ve made plans to go to a little hotel in the city that we’ve always wanted to visit in a week, during that time leading up to it we should try to seduce each other—though, of course, it would be best to hold off on sexual contact until the day arrives.

How can we start seducing each other? Well, by sending suggestive messages to your partner, sleeping naked, watching an erotic movie together (not porn—you won’t be able to resist it), giving massages, surprising your partner in the hallway and kissing them passionately—but only for a few seconds… whatever comes to mind, but both of you must be absolutely clear that there will be nothing more than hints and minimal physical contact until the planned moment arrives.

Spice up your hotel getaway with romantic lunches or dinners—and enjoy a drink at the hotel.

Note: Be careful not to go sightseeing before you get to your room; the idea is for both of you to be as well-rested as possible.

Erotic Stories:

The game involves each person reading their erotic stories to the other, while the listener closes their eyes and tries to imagine the scenes described in the text.

For this game, you’ll need to gather a good number of erotic stories, each no longer than four pages. It’s not very hard to find them—if you type “erotic stories” into any search engine, you’ll find numerous online communities of erotic literature enthusiasts who share their work.

The more stories there are—with different styles, content, and practices—the better. The goal is to find the ones that turn you on the most, but also the ones we think will turn our partner on the most.

You should set a date and time to play the game, allowing at least three days to prepare for it.

During the preparation, each person will read the selected erotic story or stories on their own to become familiar with the characters, as it is important for the intensity of the stories to build gradually so as not to create overwhelming situations.

With everything ready, the moment arrives, and everyone brings their story to the designated meeting place.

It’s essential to create the right atmosphere… soft lighting (bright enough to read by) that complements the erotic mood. There might be a drink or two… background music… and it’s essential to take care of our appearance, perfume, etc…

Once everything is ready, we undress—we can keep our underwear on—and, after finding a comfortable position for reading, we move as close as possible to our partner. One suggestion is for him to sit down and for her to do the same, but with her back resting against his chest.

Once in this position, we’ll read the stories to each other, slowly and in a gentle, calm manner… During the reading, there may be caresses, and the reading can even be done softly into the other person’s ear, in a sensuous way, and so on…

P.S.: Just because a story excites us doesn’t mean at all that we’d want to do what the text describes.

Bondage:

We suggest a very light set of bondage exercises. To start…we need to get a basic kit for playing hostage and captor: master and slave, dominant and submissive…whatever you prefer to call it.

The advice is to start slowly and only after any sexual problems have been resolved, since experimenting with this type of sexual play is not advisable when there are difficulties in the relationship.

You can buy the accessories at a “sex shop,” although it’s not necessary.

Keep in mind that the point isn’t to actually tie up your partner; there’s no need to prevent them from escaping. In fact, it makes sense for them to be able to escape if they want to. Remember that this is a game, and the “hostage” won’t try to escape but will instead play their role. That’s how it needs to be.

We need to create a pleasant atmosphere and find a time when there’s no risk of you being discovered.

We also have to cover our eyes for the game, so use a silk scarf, a blindfold, or anything else you can think of so the other person can’t see what’s going on. Do we have everything ready?

Well, now the hostage—or slave—will have to lie down on the bed, be tied up, and be blindfolded. Without getting hurt. It’s just a GAME!!!

The rule is that he or she can do whatever he or she wants with her or him to enjoy her or his body, while she or he may express nothing but moans of pleasure (obviously, before play begins, you must agree on which sexual practices you do not consent to and that are off-limits).

For the more daring among you, bondage can be taken much further, and the play can be much “harsher”; obviously, this is a personal decision that couples must make by mutual consent and not by surprise.