Rimming (anilingus)

One of the most persistent taboos surrounding oral sex is the one related to the anal area—known as “black kiss” or anilingus—which is simply another way to experiment and maximize pleasure. However, even today, this practice is linked to marginal or unsafe sexual relationships.

Just as anal sex can provide maximum arousal for both men and women, the rimming is one of the most exciting ways to relax the anus—an essential step for initiating the arousal needed for both anal and vaginal sex.

The anus is one of the erogenous zones most sensitive to stimulation in both women and men; during rimming, the tongue and mouth are used to stimulate both the anal area and the buttocks—

If you want the experience to be amazing, you need to take a few steps beforehand, such as shaving, not only to feel confident during the encounter, but also so that the person performing it can enjoy it just as much as you do.

Like any other form of oral sex, it is not free from the risk of contracting sexually transmitted diseases, so it is very important to practice meticulous hygiene using antibacterial gels. Rinsing with an anal douche will clean the rectal area and give you confidence in the level of cleanliness you should provide and expect, to enjoy these exciting caresses.

You can also use oral barriers to prevent your tongue from coming into contact with your partner’s bodily fluids. These barriers are square pieces of latex that are placed over the anus or vagina and allow for stimulation; you can also use a condom on your tongue.

These precautions aren’t as much of a drag as they might seem, since the great pleasure we derive from these caresses more than makes up for the safety we must ensure and provide.

A good way to start caressing this area is to not be too direct, since, as we’ve already explained, this area is very sensitive. Start by caressing the buttocks, play with the penis or vagina, and—using lubricant—slide your hand toward the anus and gently use your middle finger to make circular motions there; and you’ll immediately notice that the entire pelvic area becomes aroused.

Position your partner comfortably and gently run the tip of your tongue in small circles, from the perineum to the anus. Use your mouth to gently suck on the area, and use your hands to stimulate the penis or vagina. You’ll feel the intense arousal. that courses through the couple’s bodies—an experience that, like anything genuine, requires preparation.